Narcissistic abuse syndrome?

If anyone knows this subject it’s me! I found this article and I know some of you will appreciate this! I will post a few more in the next coming days as this topic is really close to a lot of us but many don’t speak of it. And if you can’t speak of it then you should at least read about it and find articles like this ❤️ wherever you are I hope you are healing and have strength to continue N.C and soon you will let go of everything you were scared of❤️

One of the most common fears of abuse victims? That they are the narcissist or have behaved narcissistically.

You may not be aware of this, but the DSM (and, therefore, mainstream psychology) has been criticized for expanding the scope of mental disorders to include behaviors that are normal variations of human experience.

Experiencing anger is a normal and natural human response to certain situations. It can be triggered by various factors, such as frustration, perceived injustice, or feeling threatened. People from diverse cultural backgrounds can all experience anger at different points in their lives.

This does not mean you have narcissistic traits.

The current narrative in the field of psychology is to assign normal human emotions to the arena of “narcissistic traits”. 

Say, for example, you are normally a resilient person who isn’t typically aggressive, even when you are faced with a challenging event. But, you find out your partner never stopped cheating after promising you for months that they’d stopped, and you blow a gasket.

Is this a narcissistic trait? Heck no! 

It is my belief that there is a widespread agenda to make narcissistic behaviors seem normal to the general population. To somehow embrace that “we all have narcissistic traits”. 

Do you know what this does? It keeps abuse victims stuck. It makes them think they have no right to point out abusive behaviors or to expect basic respect in relationships because, hey, we can all be a little narcissistic, right?

Nope. 

Think of the big picture. If narcissistic abuse victims stay in their toxic relationships because they erroneously believe they are the narcissistic aggressor, this means an inevitable need for ongoing therapy, more need for coaches, more need for medications, more need for lawyers, and more doctor’s appointments when their bodies begin to break down. 

A person who really cares, whether a Judge, a therapist, a coach, a doctor, or whomever, will want to help you get to a place where you don’t need them anymore. Not keep you thinking there is something wrong with you so you can pad their pockets for years on end.

(P.S. – Without fail, there will be narcissists pointing out this post in an effort to make their explosive anger seem normal. It’s not)

Instead of thinking you’re a narcissist or have narcissistic traits, why not explore the idea that you have narcissistic abuse syndrome?

Source : Kim Saeed!! Ps: this is not my article BUT it’s so important I need to share!